How to Talk to Women

First of all guys, you’re NEVER going to get her to
say “yes” if you’re afraid of walking up to her. If you
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I’ve talked to hundreds of women about the qualities
they find most attractive in men, and a sense of humor
is usually the first quality they mention.

But are girls lying when they say this?

 
Are they giving this answer because they don’t want to
appear shallow—when what they really want is a tall,
tough guy with muscles and a lot of money?   

If making a woman laugh was so incredibly attractive,
then wouldn’t stand-up comedians get laid more than rock stars?

 
We all know guys with a “class clown” personality who are
over and over saying funny stuff, & they are usually the
LAST guys to hook up. Women find them amusing, but don’t feel
any sexual attraction.

This is the real deal.

When women say they love a sense of humor, what they really
mean is they love the deeper ATTITUDE that a sense of humor
points to.

Guys who are funny, playful and nonchalant around women —
& even better, can tease girls and bust on them a bit
are obviously confident and in control of their reality.

 
These dudes don’t glance at girls for approval.

They do not smell of anxiety.

They just don’t ever look like the MUST get a girl’s number
or make out with her. This goes back to two principles that in
the Persuasion & Mack Mastery Program.

 

 

1. Girls love dudes that are a challenge.

2. Women are fascinated by men who are “in demand” and obviously
   have other romantic/sexual options.

Chicks, naturally, are very competitive and jealous when it comes to
men. Give her the sense that she’ll have to step up and WIN you
away from other girls, and the real game is on!

A playful, cocky guy radiates this attitude.

In order to have this mindset means you have to end second-guessing
yourself. You’ve got to squash that little voice in your head
that tells you why you SHOULDN’T approach a girl, or try to go
to the next level with her.

Your normal, everyday dude takes himself way too seriously when it comes
to women, and is constantly asking himself unnecessary questions:

“Does this shirt look good on me?”

“Is this girl going to be mad if i go up and say hi to her?”

“What if she has a boyfriend?”

“Where should I take her on a date?”

“What if we run out of things to talk about?”

“i wonder if I ask her for her number, will she see me as some kind of stalker?”

“Is it too soon to try to touch her?”

When you allow your brain to fire off these questions, it
DESTROYS your ability to be fun, spontaneous and playful.

 
You are letting yourself become preoccupied with non-important
details, when you SHOULD be asking yourself questions that
boost your confidence and remind you to stay sharp and on
top of your game:

“This girl is cute, but is she interesting enough for me to date?’

“Is this girl funny & smart enough to have a conversation with me?”

“I wonder what I could teach this woman, that she would never ever learn from the
 average guy?”

“What should I mention about myself, to really make this girl
 curious about me?”

“How far do I want to have this go tonight, and what is my plan?”

Ok, when it comes to the verbal questions you ask girls, you have
also have to understand how to “spin” them to make them very good.
When you’re getting to know a girl, and you make a request that
she can simply say “no” to, chances are she will:

 

Him: Can I buy you a drink?
Girl: Nope.
Guy: Do you think I could get your number?
Her: No.
Him: Can I kiss you?
Girl: Nope.
Him: Want to go back to my place?
Her:  Hell no effing way~Girl: You have got to be kidding me, no~Her: Over my dead body}.
Him: Can I see you again?
Her: I’m pretty busy…for the next six months.

 
1 tactic is to “rephrase” the questions you ask so that you give
women “false choices.” This means you are not giving her the
opportunity to say “no.”

You are assuming that she’s going to go with your flow, and
implying that. Lead the conversation, & if she is at all
interested in you, or at least curious, she’ll go along with
it & never ever reject you with a “no.”

 
WACK: Can I buy you a drink?

MACK: So tell me something interesting about yourself, that’s
      going to make me want to have a drink with you.

BAD: Do you want to come back to my house?

MACK: Let’s go to my place and I’ll show you that _______ I
      told you about. (Fill in the blank with something you
      mentioned earlier, that you want to show her.) I’ve got
      some good wine…but I’ve got to be up early tomorrow, so
      just one glass.

WACK: Would you like to dance?

GOOD: I think I’m gonna have to pull you onto the dance floor. I
      don’t want you standing here looking like a wallflower.

 
BAD: Do you wanna hang out at sometime?

Good: My buddies said there’s this awesome bar that has excellent
     music on Friday and Saturday nights. Which night is better for you?

 
Keep in mind: ordinary, boring dudes are always asking for permission
from girls. The result of this is a ton of “no’s” and even more of
disappointment, frustration, and masturbation.

While we’re waiting……….turn things upside down and begin “spinning” your questions
to make them more powerful, interesting and effective. Incidentally,
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Exercise Prudence and Maturity While Dating

As young boys and girls become conscious of their developing sexuality, they may be disturbed or puzzled about the emotional, biological and physical changes they are experiencing. At the onset of puberty, young boys and girls would prefer to mingle mainly with members of their own sex, who are also experiencing similar changes.

As these youngsters start gaining confidence and maturity, they slowly start evincing interest and curiosity in members of the opposite sex. Boys and Girls slowly learn how to conduct themselves with people of both sexes and of all ages too during adolescence. They learn to become more liberated and make their own conclusions.

In America, as well as in most developed countries, boys and girls grow up together and are accustomed to being together even before they reach adolescence. Throughout childhood, they play together, learn together and participate in many activities together. It is only during the teen years that the boy-girl relationships assumes importance and sometimes becomes difficult to comprehend.

As teenagers become mature emotionally, sexually and socially, they begin to seek closer and more personal relationships with the members of the opposite sex. The age at which dating starts differs. To some extent, it depends on the background they come from and in some others; it is the desire to emulate their peers.

Teens may prefer the security of dating in groups at first. During the late years of teen age, it is common to notice youngsters favoring to go out alone with their date, specifically in the present times.
Generally, the boy asks the girl for a date and assumes responsibility for her. The majority of children look for their parents’ ok before they start dating, unless they want to keep their relationship on the down low.

Boys and girls both enjoy performing simple tasks to be closer to each other when dating. As people get closer, they may want more contact than just holding hands. Maturity and self control are helpful. A slight slip and surge of emotion can have serious ramifications leading to remorse, resentment and social stigma.

It is important that youngsters understand utterly and manage their sexual desires. When they do, they are more likely to have successful, rewarding relationships. Hooking up with the wrong date can be a problem. A good dating should be the outcome of important moral standards and fervent personal emotions. Remember, true love is ever-lasting but lust is momentary.

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