How To Improve A Poor Self-Image and Create The Love of Your Dreams
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
A common concern for clients of mine is their belief that they have to drop 50 pounds or be financially secure prior to being able to create long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It is great to want to look your best, feel your best, have high self-esteem and feel good concerning your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and attractive.
There are a HUGE amount of industries that prey on peoples’ low sense of self-image. At some time or another, we’ve all fallen prey to paying for that hot new piece of exercise equipment that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and own a beautiful self. Supplements, special diets or dieting plans, hair products, skin, teeth, libido, all of it! And these messages are all aimed at one basic premise – that we’re not actually OK the way we come.
We’re so accustomed to this kind of thinking that we never even question it. It is not surprising that we do this. After all, when we are born, at the beginning of our existence, we are loved and treated as perfection – at least most of the time. Then soon we are being compared to how our older sibling evolved, at what time they developed this ability, sitting, crawling, learning the language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are similar or different to the other one or that. “Oh, she appears similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You understand the pattern.
Begin by analyzing your recurring thoughts and feelings concerning your body. Many people do not even understand that they have persisting limiting vibrations or feelings from these previous experiences. Negativity, whether pervading or subtle, does not feel good and many of us just teach ourselves to bury it, deal with it, or push it further into the unconscious. These influential emotional experiences usually continue to be subjugated. We have all used the term “emotional baggage.” We go through life with old unresolved, paining, hard to deal with feelings continuing to be held somewhere in us. These emotions transmit to the Universe to mirror back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.
Start to transform your connection with your body by making lists of what you like about you. What truly harmonizes with your body? What can you appreciate about your appearance? Think of 5 things every day that you truly love about your body. Do you like your senses? Are you thankful for working fingers? Make lists of the positive things about you and watch your energy and vibrational level of attraction begin to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.
